What would, or wouldn't you do, on a first date?

That was the topic we discussed on Tuesday, 20th October. As in every Open House, the topic got passed around for people's comments and if you didn't want to comment, you passed. Our responses:

“what’s consensual, what’s moving along or not moving along, anything but sex, many things may happen, (Alice passed because her experiences are much too lurid to be detailed) kinky people say everything is kinky, broken all my rules, you have an idea, done so many things that I didn’t think I would so no more in having any rules, not go to church, never say ‘I love you’, chatted on Pink Sofa about everything so when we met knew lots about each other, have an event to go to like a movie or art show so you have something to focus on, wouldn’t do anything I’m uncomfortable with, don’t go on a first date to Lemons as it’s too noisy and crowded, be prepared to just walk out’. And pity the poor person who goes on a date with Nuzza to an art gallery as she would have read the entire history of western art and bios of each and every one of the artists and their housekeepers to really impress her date. Part of that infallible algorithm for attracting girls which is into the 80th page and third draft.